During your job search, you will be subject to the opinions of people reviewing your resume, interviewers, hiring authorities, family and friends. It is easy for you to get frustrated when those opinions screen you out from consideration.  You must realize that opinions are often not based on facts. They are someone’s interpretation of what they perceive as fact. A lack of communication or feedback is even more frustrating because you don’t know why you were screened out or what you need to improve. If you are utilizing Job Boards or Website Postings, often you do not receive feedback due to the volume of responses.  In many cases you could be screened out by a computer using an automated screening system.

Family and friends don’t realize how hurtful their remarks, opinions and advice can be when you are desperately trying to find a job. You must also realize that these individuals have NO expertise in how to conduct a successful search. The job market today is much more competitive and automated making it more difficult to schedule interviews and obtain valuable feedback.

Do yourself a favor and block out the negativity and noise in your life. Don’t allow the opinions of others to become your reality. When you are told what you will NOT be able to accomplish, automatically think to yourself, “just watch me!” One great example: Michael Jordan was told by his high school coach that he was not good enough to play high school basketball. Just imagine how different his life would have been if he believed that coach and quit playing basketball.

Your attitude, expectations and self confidence level greatly affect the success of your job search. Starting today, expect great things to happen and kick your job search into high gear.